Ted Haggard And Wife To Appear On “Divorce Court”
What’s unusual about this is that Ted and Gayle Haggard are appearing to talk about how wonderful their marriage is now that Ted has shown repentance and Gayle has found forgiveness. Their marriage survived a relationship Ted Haggard had with a male prostitute who alleged pay for play.
The Haggards say their marriage and Christian faith are stronger than ever, and they want people to know that divorce is not the answer.
“This is part of Ted’s journey,” Gayle Haggard said. “It’s made him a better man. I see what has happened as a divine rescue.”
She said she was helped through her darkest hours by the biblical principles of forgiveness, compassion and steadfastness, along with her husband’s genuine repentance.
Maybe we can all learn something from how the Haggards were able to keep their relationship together.









Mr. Haggard wondered off the path [so to speak]. Sounds like he’s going for the pulpit again. GOOD LUCK CHUMP !!!!
March 19th, 2009 at 11:24 am
This man is worst than Palin and Blago put togather.
The man has ADD or ADHD running in his blood.
March 19th, 2009 at 11:24 am
I think some of this can be traced back to his education and roots at Oral Roberts University. Another alumna of his is Michele Bachmann, MN06 who graduated from Oral Roberts Coburn University the year that it failed and rolled into Regents University of Monica Goodling Fame.
(You remember Jon Stewart’s “Jiffy Law”, your Law Degree in 30 minutes or the oil change is FREE”).
Michele Bachmann other than her clawing lip lock on the former President at a State of the Union, recently announced on a Chris Mattews Hardball that she thought Journalists should investigate the Congress for other anti-Americans like Barack Obama. Then of course she lied about it, saying she never said it, except for all that film and tape stuff.
SO, I think it is the Oral Roberts Education, they must not teach “Thou Shalt Not Lie”. Something like that.
Don’t forget, Ted Haggard was Bush’s 3rd Wave christianist coach, ewwwww.
HAPPY 6th anniversary of the Iraq “Occupation”! NOT a War…
March 19th, 2009 at 11:45 am
Divorce Court but no divorce? I give her a lot of credit…she must be a truly great woman to put up with crap like that. She should have dropped him like he was hot.
Ted and Larry Craig are experiencing similar life journeys, apparently…and give libs more “hypocrisy ammo” to use against conservatives.
March 19th, 2009 at 12:01 pm
Agreed. More power to her, who would want to kiss that lying etc etc mouth?
Oh right, Larry Craig!
(cheap shot I know but the 6th Anniversary of that RIDICULOUS illegal Invasion of Iraq, a WMD less country COVERED in inspectors and flyovers, really gets me going.)
March 19th, 2009 at 12:08 pm
Most peoples “journey” through times like his are done privately, so I can assume that he his just another media hog. What type of person would expose themselves to the public like this twit is? Hypocrite is not the correct term for this type of person; a**hole is.
March 19th, 2009 at 12:31 pm
Poor Ted. A gay man trying to play the role of straight man. Reminds me of Rock Hudson.
March 19th, 2009 at 12:46 pm
How about Lindsey Graham, South Carolina? I think there is some resemblance, certainly the politics.
March 19th, 2009 at 1:00 pm
Let’s see. The woman forgave her husband and is likely learning to keep forgiving Ted. Wow! Somebody has been listening to what Jesus told Peter, about forgiving his brother. “How many times shall I keep forgiving him? Seven times seven was the response.
Has Ted repented? It is not for me to judge.
I think it is great to hear stories of forgiveness and restoration. This is also a story about grace and mercy
Ted’s wife could’ve done so many other things but chose to stay in the marriage. God Bless her!!
March 19th, 2009 at 1:00 pm
I’m for it Barry. Good to see Republicans can still reproduce:)
March 19th, 2009 at 1:07 pm
Why would she leave now? He has no money.
Wait until he gets a good sized bank account, then dump him.
March 19th, 2009 at 1:43 pm
Is it so hard, Boogie? Is it that hard to believe that someone could sincerely forgive you for betraying them? This is what happened here.
Hillary Clinton did the same thing. She didn’t need Bill Clinton to succeed in anything. From what I understand, it may have been better if she told the media to “put a cork in it!” And, dealt with the matte privately.
March 19th, 2009 at 1:51 pm
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!
Funny stuff…
March 19th, 2009 at 2:03 pm
I was the first one crying “hypocricy” when this story broke. But after witnessing how his friends, former parishoners and church officials threw him under the bus, my heart goes out to him.
March 19th, 2009 at 2:04 pm
So many are quick to throw stones, at anyone who is caught sinning. So many are ready to hurl words like javelins at whoever the target may be.
It is very easy to do and it is often a result of a rush to judgements and no thoughts to forgiving the person and helping such a person in the restoration process.
I recall a scene where a woman caught in adultery was brought before Jesus. They were ready to kill her. They were testing Jesus to see how he’d react. “Let him without sin, cast the fist stone.”
Guess what? Except for Jesus, there was not one who was without sin. They all left both Jesus and the woman behind. Even better, Jesus did not throw any stone. He just told the woman, “Your sin is forgiven and go and sin no more.” He was speaking about the adultery.
Tis ashame we don’t take the time to consider what is being said here. Forgive, let it go, Give it to God and keep forgiving. Easy said and not easily done all the time.
March 19th, 2009 at 2:37 pm
Ted should drop by on the Jerry Springer Show as well.
March 19th, 2009 at 2:49 pm
Stones are to soft. Throwing bricks at him will suit Haggard just fine.
March 19th, 2009 at 2:51 pm
I am not a fan of Jerry Springer. This largely because of the loud theatric and unpleasant climate. “Yuck!” is my reaction.
That may not be such a bad idea! :) Because the man has a large audience, a story on forgiveness and restoration and a chance to share the gospel to those who may not otherwise hear.
It may not be the proverbial “Casting pearls before swines” as one may think.
Personally, I would say that Oprah would be a better choice as this is up her alley.
March 19th, 2009 at 2:58 pm
Um, he is probably a closet gay.
That means he should drop his wife and get a boyfriend.
Sorry but holding up the altar of marriage when you are not into it is like a weird form of sin. You are supposed to be honest with that one person, utterly. If you can’t be honest about your sexual desires them them then you are really up the creek.
I won’t say anything with clarity because I don’t know them personally but I thought he is straight.
And there is nothing wrong with that. How long do gay men have to marry women just so BarryB, Flap and BlissfulCon don’t call them faggots when they go outside. How long? How long before hatred will no longer rule our beautiful country?
I am awaiting a response from Conservative America.
March 19th, 2009 at 3:12 pm
Guess what? Except for Jesus, there was not one who was without sin. They all left both Jesus and the woman behind. Even better, Jesus did not throw any stone. He just told the woman, “Your sin is forgiven and go and sin no more.” He was speaking about the adultery.
Tis ashame we don’t take the time to consider what is being said here. Forgive, let it go, Give it to God and keep forgiving. Easy said and not easily done all the time.
Posted by BarryB
Um, so you know this to true because … a priest told you?
It is a heavy quote that my buddy dropped on us and you might not be really absorbing it.
Let’s try it more modern:
“Let the person who is perfect levee the first charge against.”
It’s not the quote obviously but look at it.
Are you so ‘morally’ perfect that you can judge someone who is perhaps gay or maybe sick with some disease like addiction and feel it right to call them ’scum’ or ‘trash’?
Are you so perfect in your own soul that you have any message worth anything more than a grain of sand to people in regards to Jesus and his words. I always tell people they must be crazy as a loon if they can’t hear him talking to you, everyday of our lives.
I don’t think Jesus was without sin. I have many things like that where as you hear / read what I think you will bounce to the part of the Bible that the Constitution is at odds with:
The part about burning people at the stake.
So stop kissing the KJB because … oh nevermind … this is always pointless.
March 19th, 2009 at 3:22 pm
ERIC,
are you so “morally perfect” you feel you can indiscriminately judge another based upon their political beliefs? Calling them idiots, stupid, morons, and the like just because they don’t think like you do?
Practice what you preach.
Stop kissing the collective neo-lib’s arse because…oh nevermind…this is always pointless.
March 19th, 2009 at 3:25 pm
The man says he’s not gay. The man say he’s not straight.
So what’s left is bisexual. This is also a sexual identity, lol, so let him apologize to his wife for getting caught and causing her embarassment, and if she is happy and he is happy – everyone move on.
March 19th, 2009 at 3:42 pm
ERIC,
are you so “morally perfect” you feel you can indiscriminately judge another based upon their political beliefs? Calling them idiots, stupid, morons, and the like just because they don’t think like you do?
Practice what you preach.
Stop kissing the collective neo-lib’s arse because…oh nevermind…this is always pointless.
Posted by JaredfromTexas
Perspective, Jared. That’s my perspective. Not my hard-line truth of all existence. I didn’t ‘preach’ a word to anyone. Just expressed myself like conservatives hate to hear and love to supress.
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again. I call ‘em like I see ‘em. If you don’t want to be called an idiot please stopping saying things like “Obama Recession” and “Socialist Agenda”. When was the last time someone called you a fascist? Been awhile? Well I’m not doing that. I am telling grown adults who talk like children to stop the crap.
Yes, I go WAY outta line and I’d like to just appologize in general.
Frankly there IS evil in the world and to sit with a calm and peaceful heart in the midst of evil is a brand of sickness I won’t engage in.
When did I kiss any ass? You go back and read EVERY LAST SINGLE WORD IVE EVER TYPED IN HERE and show it to me.
Yup, try to jump out on this limb with me. You’ll find I like hitting the ground and know how to get back up.
Did Christ tell you to support the war? He told he not to.
Did Christ tell you Bush was good for the world and for America? He told me he wasn’t.
Want me to make a bunch of predistions that may or may not come true?
Just be quiet … and still … and ask questions of our mutual Lord and Saviour. You just might stop going to church or whatever you do and start just taking the words from the source instead of filtered through IDIOTS LIKE ME.
Hahahaha, you get it now? We’re all dirty little muckracking poop-tossers. Your the one sitting in a tower looking down from where I sit. We dork, nerds, geeks, morons, idiots, and cowards are all out here in the cold rain of the real world.
It must be nice to live in that cozy tower where nobody can reach you.
March 19th, 2009 at 3:54 pm
EricG,
I had to go to another thread to learn more about you. :) You ar proving to be an interesting fellow.It seems you enjoy being a provoker.
As for me, I don’t like letting my temper get the better of me. Thankfully, I have a chance to clam down. It doesn’t mean I’ll speak wisely.
March 19th, 2009 at 4:12 pm
“Maybe we can all learn something…”
I think that’s unlikely.
The posts to this thread, by and large, I take as confirming my own very biased opinion of humanity.
March 19th, 2009 at 4:25 pm
ERIC
I’ll paraphrase what you’ve written: “read what I write before responding”
I’ve never said Obama’s Recession or Socialist Agenda…but I also don’t suppose to argue that everything that went wrong with America in the last 8 years is Bush’s fault as your fellow Dems had every chance to provide a united dissenting voice…but didn’t. If you were honest with youself…as you imply above…you’d know this to be true…and admit it as such.
You, however, seem very comfortable with name-calling (I think you’ve been hanging around SARAH too long) when someone doesn’t agree with you. Not that it surprises me anymore..especially coming from you. “I don’t like what you like…so, you’re an idiot”
March 19th, 2009 at 4:48 pm
Everyone just stop whining and go outside for some fresh air….
March 19th, 2009 at 4:58 pm
Maybe Ted’s bisexual. I think it’s great he and his wife are trying to work it out, actually. There’s a certain earnestness that’s refreshing. And really, I’m all about the underdog, usually. The guy’s repented, he doesn’t seem to be hurling stones at others these days, he’s probably learned something about humility and grown closer to God during the whole experience.
I still think it’s a shame men and women who are gay or bi- find themselves in disastrous situations like this, because they can’t live openly.
(Jared, you seem to be coming on overly strong on here. I haven’t posted all day today, are you having a bad Thursday? As for name-calling, what’s “neo-lib”? And can you explain what “feminazis” are? Your skewed vision is interesting, to say the least. I really don’t think I call people names, per se, very often, but I DO think many conservatives don’t LIKE what I say to them, any more than I like what they say to me sometimes. Let’s all grow a pair, shall we?)
March 19th, 2009 at 6:26 pm
Doh! And now with this, my one and only post for the day, I’m gonna stop whining and go out and enjoy the fresh air, as per Furyus.
Have a happy, smiley day full of rainbows and puppy dogs! Tomorrow is SPRINGGGGGG!
Wheeeeeee!
March 19th, 2009 at 6:27 pm
Let him who is without sin throw the first stone.
I truly believe that liberals do not understand forgiveness and the power of God to change a persons life. You have to have faith and trust in God. You have to lay down your entire life before God and trust Him to carry your burdens. God loves all mankind and weeps when one goes astray.
March 19th, 2009 at 6:31 pm
Let him who is without sin throw the first stone.
Posted by Willy
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Because that’s EXACTLY what the Republicans said about Clinton.
March 19th, 2009 at 6:36 pm
What did they say about Clinton?
March 19th, 2009 at 6:37 pm
OK, Willy is TOTALLY a stealth Liberal with that one!
Righton my Brother! CARAZY!!! U R Good!
I feel I should elaborate on my comment about 3rd wave christianist Republicans like Haggard staying together so that Right Wing Republicans can reproduce:)
Went to see Milk this week. Penn deserved his award. Spoiler alert!
He is in an arguement with his eventual Killer Milk.
And Milk a Christian tells him that two men cannot have children.
Milk nods, laughs and says “Right, but darnit we KEEP TRYING!!!”
That is why the Haggards belong on the Divorce NOT Court, THEY KEEP TRYING!
I WILL be glad when this 6th anniversary of the Illegal Invasion and occupation of Iraq is over. How about you Willy? Did you know there is going to be a 7th?
March 19th, 2009 at 6:46 pm
That is of course WHITE is the eventual Killer and WHITE who is a Christian says
two men cannot have Children…OK, I’m outa here.
March 19th, 2009 at 6:48 pm
What did they say about Clinton?
Posted by willy
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“What will we tell the children??”
Dan Burton, the Indiana congressman called Clinton a “scumbag,”
HENRY HYDE, was pushing for impeachment until it came out that HE CARRIED ON A SECRET AFFAIR.
“President Clinton’s behavior has severely damaged his ability to lead our nation, and the free world.” Helen Chenoweth,( who had affairs.)
To name a few…
I don’t have a problem with forgiveness, but from the people who claim to be our moral betters??
March 19th, 2009 at 7:09 pm
“So many are quick to throw stones, at anyone who is caught sinning.”
It’s not so much about the sinning, Barry, it’s about the hypocrisy.
Haggard made his mark by, among other things, ragging on and on about
Homosexuals and he sinful and unclean they are.
Now that his true colors come out, he wants UNDERSTANDING?
March 19th, 2009 at 7:10 pm
“OK, Willy is TOTALLY a stealth Liberal with that one!”
Posted by 4moreyears
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I’m starting to think so too!
March 19th, 2009 at 7:12 pm
Willy, are you Vinnie Pee under a new name?
March 19th, 2009 at 7:16 pm
“” You have to lay down your entire life before God and trust Him to carry your burdens.”"
And when “He” fails to do so…when he lets your child die at 2 years, or be born deformed and facing a life of pain…when “He” lets mothers and fathers die young and leave their children behind…when “He” fails to carry the “burden” of the 2 billion people that are going to bed tonight hungry, and the 25,000 that won’t wake up tommorrow from preventable illness…when “He” lets bad things happen to good people…and good things happen to bad…
….That’s because, why again?
Oh, I know, I’ve heard your christian BS here before – It’s because there ARE no “good” people, right? (except the unborn…interesting…)
Oh yeah, and those heathens that are without clean water, why they just don’t have real “faith”, right?
Maybe children are born to die young because their parents did, or thought, something “wicked”, right?
They had it coming, right?
Maybe they didn’t “pray” enough?
Oh well, “without pain and suffering there’d be no joy and singing and fa la la la la let’s all raise our hands and say “jeesus!, jeesus!”"
…and of course we are not “rewarded” by our good works here on earth, oh no, Jeebus don’t care none ’bout that! Jeebus wants us to chant his name over and over and say stupid things like “he is the light and the way…” all the while not even knowing what he means by that…
What absolute rubbish.
What abs. so. lute. Shite.
March 19th, 2009 at 8:21 pm
“” You have to lay down your entire life before God and trust Him to carry your burdens.”"
And when “He” fails to do so…when he lets your child die at 2 years, or be born deformed and facing a life of pain…when “He” lets mothers and fathers die young and leave their children behind…when “He” fails to carry the “burden” of the 2 billion people that are going to bed tonight hungry, and the 25,000 that won’t wake up tommorrow from preventable illness…when “He” lets bad things happen to good people…and good things happen to bad…
….That’s because, why again?
Oh, I know, I’ve heard your christian BS here before – It’s because there ARE no “good” people, right? (except the unborn…interesting…)
Oh yeah, and those heathens that are without clean water, why they just don’t have real “faith”, right?
Maybe children are born to die young because their parents did, or thought, something “wicked”, right?
They had it coming, right?
Maybe they didn’t “pray” enough?
Oh well, “without pain and suffering there’d be no joy and singing and fa la la la la let’s all raise our hands and say “jeesus!, jeesus!”"
…and of course we are not “rewarded” by our good works here on earth, oh no, Jeebus don’t care none ’bout that! Jeebus wants us to chant his name over and over and say stupid things like “he is the light and the way…” all the while not even knowing what he means by that…We can cheat, lie, divorce, steal, be corrupt, vote Republican, be racist, be xenophobic, spread hatred of other religions and on and on and on
…..and none of that matters, because Jeesus says our deeds don’t matter.
The kindest, most fair, most generous, most helpful, most compassionate person – none of that matters, oh no.
What absolute rubbish.
What abs. so. lute. BS
Wake up, you are in the thrall of a hideous cult, and you don’t even know it, lol.
Look at the news! Stop making excuses for this “God” character who time after time does NOTHING about pain, suffering and tradgedy.
There IS NO GOD.
:-)
March 19th, 2009 at 8:26 pm
Fortunately Mr. Frosty, There IS a Goddess otherwise who would clean up this mess?
March 19th, 2009 at 8:29 pm
If there WAS a goddess, one who blessed those her cradled her earth in their bosom, and lived from the land without greed, selfishness and hate…she has long since boogered off to greener pastures, I assure you…
March 19th, 2009 at 8:40 pm
“Willy, are you Vinnie Pee under a new name?”
Wow! Remember Vinnie Pee?
March 19th, 2009 at 9:24 pm
“I WILL be glad when this 6th anniversary of the Illegal Invasion and occupation of Iraq is over. How about you Willy? Did you know there is going to be a 7th?”
Are you kidding? Willy’s disappointed Obama is ending this occupation.
Support the troops – bring them home!
March 19th, 2009 at 9:31 pm
Who is Vinnie Pee?
If there were an occupation TDRO. We are liberators, not occupiers.
Support the troops, let them finish the job. It is almost done. 17 of the 18 benchmarks have been met and number 18, training their troops to be self sustaining, will take a few more years.
That is success.
March 20th, 2009 at 8:57 am
Boogie,
That was the point of the Scripture I mentioned. I was paraphrasing it. Fact is, I never heard of this guy, until the scandal broke out. The first hint came from an email saying “Don’t believe the media report”. Eh, what report?? I found out later.
Considering the loud protestations from some of the earlier postings, I have to wonder about the person posting.
)____
Eh, who is Vinnie Pee?
March 20th, 2009 at 4:06 pm
“Support the troops, let them finish the job. It is almost done.”
No Willy. I’d rather we not sacrifice any more soldiers. They don’t want us there and I think we should leave. I’d rather we have our troops protecting the U.S. than have them tied up in Iraq.
I’m sure it’s easy for you to say, “let them finish”. Why do you care? You’re not the one with your ass on the line.
Support the troops – BRING THEM HOME.
March 20th, 2009 at 4:51 pm
Barry:
Vinnie Pee was like Willy on steroids. He used to come here a lot and drum up hatred for the Muslims.
March 20th, 2009 at 4:53 pm